Do not worry, no surgery is required. When i mention Third eye. I mean seeing the surrounding not with your eyes, but with the eyes of the Bride and Groom(B&G).

It is important that we do not see our B&G as only clients. but also as friends and to love them.
It is not unusual to see B&G engaging their friends to capture their wedding, unfortunately many of them are not wedding photographers therefore lack experience and skills. Do we know that many B&G wants to engage their friends not just for budget reason? They do that because they feel their friends know them better and therefore could shoot the wedding with more heart.

Likewise, if we could capture the couple’s wedding not just based on formulas, but truly shooting their wedding because we are their friends too and most importantly we love them, you can imagine how powerful the images will be.
And you will notice. You can see things from their perspective too.
Keep in contact often and not just during sign-up and wedding day. You will notice that this not only helps you shoot better in a wedding but also helps you alot in business wise simply because, people will refer more customers to their own friends than someone that just shoots collect money from them.
Personally i am a rather introvert person. It takes hard and long lesson for me to learn this. But after seeing the tremendous difference when I treat the couple as your friend than just a client, it just encourages me more to do so ever more.



